Do they even know?
You're frustrated. If only that employee—or spouse ;)—would...
Take more initiative
Follow through on actions
Show some enthusiasm
Communicate more clearly
Be proactive
The list goes on. Why aren't they improving in these areas? But as these frustrations run through your head, the real question is: do they even know? How aware are they of the issue or of your desire for change? Without awareness, change will not happen.
Instead of quietly waiting for them to take a step toward improvement, perhaps the next step belongs to you. Watch the Two-Minute Tip to assess your unique situation.